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Shabbat: Essence, Homecoming & the Present Moment
Excerpt from Shabbat: A Taste of Wholeness

By Dawn J. Lipthrott, LCSW

ShabbatRemembering Your Essence: A Taste of Wholeness

'Keeping and remembering' Shabbat by not interfering or interrupting the natural order of Creation also means to honor your own inherent nature as a human being. The Baal Shem Tov said that only God exists and that our soul is a portion of God. It is a day to remember and to dip into your own essence, to recognize your own inherent (natural) qualities -- qualities like generosity, love, curiosity, creativity, brilliance, play, wisdom, relaxed joyfulness, ease and peace of being, among others. In the busyness of life you become disconnected from your true self and live from your protective shell instead of from the Divine Spark within you. Shabbat is stopping and paying attention to reality -- a reality that is always present, but outside your awareness.

The command to 'keep and remember' extends to your being. It is a day to practice becoming conscious and living from that place of wholeness, connection and harmony. As you become more aware and practice it on Shabbat, you will not only re-connect with your real self, you will live your life more and more from that essence.

Shabbat is also a time to remember who you are and who God is -- to not only re-connect with your inherent qualities, but also to recognize your primary connection with the cosmos and with the Divine. It is a day to wonder and be filled with awe and gratitude for life, for who you are, and for God's gifts to you. It is a day to remember that God, in every moment, continues to hold you and Creation in existence.

Home-coming



"Sabbath means the homecoming. On that day, all returns to its true place . . .
on the Sabbath day, they find rest because they are allowed to go home . . ."

Rabbi Yehiel Mikhal of Zlotchov


Because Shabbat is a day of reconnecting with the essence of Life, and being 'held' by the Divine, it is the day of coming home -- to your self, and to your inherent connection with all Creation and with God. It is when you return to your true place and nature which is harmony, wholeness, and peace.

According to Jewish mystical tradition, it is also the day in which the Sefirot (Attributes) through which all is created, return to their proper place and relationship.* All is in balance and harmony, allowing the Divine flow to abundantly enter the world.

For this reason, Shabbat is also called the 'day of Kabbalah'. For those who study and live in the context of Jewish mysticism, Shabbat became a joyous celebration of the wedding between masculine and feminine aspects of God. They urged that everything you do in ritual, thought, and action be done with the intention of recognizing and facilitating that union. The union is with the immanent aspect of the Presence of God among us (the Shekhinah or Malchut) and the transcendent Holy One. Divine Blessing freely flows into the world. The divine Attributes are in harmony and balance, and you are in harmony with the Divine. You are no longer wandering aimlessly in exile -- you are home.

Shabbat is a time when the Light of the beginning of Creation is revealed again in your world. It is a taste of the 'world to come' -- to nourish you and to challenge you to co-create a world that is the essence of Shabbat.

As If for the First Time

Because Shabbat is a celebration of Creation, you do everything on Shabbat 'as if for the first time.' You see everything in the first Light of Creation. On each and every Shabbat you say the prayers and sing the songs with the excitement of the first time. You eat challah and drink wine 'as if for the first time.' You eat your meal and enjoy the flames of the candles 'as if for the first time.' You see each other 'as if for the first time.' You approach every moment as brand new -- and in so doing, you come closer to the reality of experience. The rabbis warned about 'growing old' in our seeing, thinking, and experiencing. Shabbat breaks open life to reveal its eternal newness in each and every moment.

Shabbat reminds you to see the Divine in the everyday. With the eyes of Shabbat, the true nature of Creation is revealed. It is like looking for the 3-dimensional pictures hidden within computer generated patterns, and allowing what is 'hidden' to come into focus.

It is also said, that Creation did not happen just one time, but that at every moment, God continues to create all things in order for it to exist. At each moment all things are new and Shabbat gives you practice in experiencing each moment with fresh wonder and awareness.

Excerpt from Shabbat: A Taste of Wholeness
Copyright 1996, Dawn Lipthrott, Orlando, Florida


LIST OF EXCERPTS FROM: SHABBAT-A TASTE OF WHOLENESS
Shabbat, the Jewish Sabbath, is said to be "a taste of the world to come", a taste of wholeness.These articles are an introduction to what Shabbat can be for you and how it can empower you to co-create a more conscious world.



Shabbat: A Taste of Wholeness
Info on the book from which these excerpts were taken. Contents and ordering information.
Part 1: Shabbat: Day of Kavannah (Mindfulness)
By Dawn Lipthrott. Shabbat can be a way to live more consciously, and mindfully. This article is about living intentionally and about Sabbath rest. Excerpt from the book .

Part 2: Shabbat: Creating Boundaries and Holding:
By Dawn Lipthrott.
Part of living with mindfulness is also about creating boundaries and the freedom they bring. Shabbat is both about holding one's self within boundaries and also about being held in the Divine. Excerpt from the book .

Part 3: Shabbat: Essence, Homecoming, and the Present Moment:
By Dawn Lipthrott.
Shabbat reconnects us with our core, our essence, and empowers us to live more from that core in our daily life. It gives us practice in looking with new eyes and discovering the Divine hidden in the world. Excerpt from book.

Spiritual Experience: What if I Don't 'Feel' Spiritual?
By Dawn Lipthrott.
There is no place that God is not. Attention makes things and people present to us. It takes intentionality (kavannah). Excerpt from book.

View the Table of Contents for this book. Click here for some of the comments..

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